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Donnerstag, 28. April 2011

Abortion

Recently I read a post of my friend and I asked her for permission to reblog it. So here we go...

This is a Story…Please take your time to read it!

Hi Mommy!
I’m your baby. You don’t know me yet, I’m only a few weeks old. You’re going to find out about me soon, though, I promise. Let me tell you some things about me. My name is John, and I’ve got beautiful brown eyes and black hair. Well, I don’t have it yet, but I will when I’m born. I’m going to be your only child, and you’ll call me your one and only. I’m going to grow up without a daddy mostly, but we have each other. We’ll help each other, and love each other. I want to be a doctor when I grow up.

You found out about me today, Mommy! You were so excited, you couldn’t wait to tell everyone. All you could do all day was smile, and life was perfect. You have a beautiful smile, Mommy. It will be the first face I will see in my life, and it will be the best thing I see in my life. I
know it already.

Today was the day you told Daddy. You were so excited to tell him about me! …He wasn’t happy, Mommy. He kind of got angry. I don’t think that you noticed, but he did. He started to talk about something called wedlock, and money, and bills, and stuff I don’t think I understand
yet. You were still happy, though, so it was okay. Then he did something scary, Mommy. He hit you. I could feel you fall backward, and your hands flying up to protect me. I was okay…but I was very sad for you. You were crying then, Mommy. That’s a sound I don’t like. It doesn’t make me feel good. It made me cry, too. He said sorry after and he hugged you again. You forgave him, Mommy, but I’m not sure if I do. It wasn’t right. You say he loves you… why would he hurt you? I don’t like it, Mommy.

Finally, you can see me! Your stomach is a little bit bigger, and you’re so proud of me! You went out with your mommy to buy new clothes and you were so so so happy. You sing to me, too. You have the most beautiful voice in the whole wide world. When you sing is when I’m happiest. And you talk to me, and I feel safe. So safe. You just wait and see, Mommy. When I am born I will be perfect just for you. I will make you proud, and I will love you with all of my heart.

I can move my hands and feet now, Mommy. I do it because you put your hands on your belly to feel me, and I giggle. You giggle, too. I love you, Mommy.

Daddy came to see you today, Mommy. I got really scared. He was acting funny and he wasn’t talking right. He said he didn’t want you. I don’t know why, but that’s what he said. And he hit you again. I got angry, Mommy. When I grow up I promise I won’t let you get hurt! I promise to protect you. Daddy is bad. I don’t care if you think that he is a good person, I think he’s bad. But he hit you, and he said he didn’t want us. He doesn’t like me. Why doesn’t he like me, Mommy?

You didn’t talk to me tonight, Mommy. Is everything okay?

It’s been three days since you saw Daddy. You haven’t talked to me or touched me or anything since that. Don’t you still love me, Mommy? I still love you. I think you feel sad. The only time I feel you is when you sleep. You sleep funny, kind of curled up on your side. And you hug
me with your arms, and I feel safe and warm again. Why don’t you do that when you’re awake, any more?

I’m 21 weeks old today, Mommy. Aren’t you proud of me? We’re going somewhere today, and it’s somewhere new. I’m excited. It looks like a hospital, too. I want to be a doctor when I grow up, Mommy. Did I tell you that? I hope you’re as excited as I am. I can’t wait.

…Mommy, I’m getting scared. Your heart is still beating, but I don’t know what you are thinking. The doctor is talking to you. I think something’s going to happen soon. I’m really, really, really scared, Mommy. Please tell me you love me. Then I will feel safe again. I love you!

Mommy, what are they doing to me!? It hurts! Please make them stop! It feels bad! Please, Mommy, please please help me! Make them stop!

Don’t worry Mommy, I’m safe. I’m in heaven with the angels now. They told me what you did, and they said it’s called an abortion.

Why, Mommy? Why did you do it? Don’t you love me any more? Why did you get rid of me? I’m really, really, really sorry if I did something wrong, Mommy. I love you, Mommy! I love you with all of my heart. Why don’t you love me? What did I do to deserve what they did to me? I want to live, Mommy! Please! It really, really hurts to see you not care about me, and not talk to me. Didn’t I love you enough? Please say you’ll keep me, Mommy! I want to live smile and watch the clouds and see your face and grow up and be a doctor. I don’t want to be here, I want you to love me again! I’m really really really sorry if I did something wrong. I love you!

I love you, Mommy.

Every abortion is just…
One more heart that was stopped.
Two more eyes that will never see.
Two more hands that will never touch.
Two more legs that will never run.
One more mouth that will never speak.

If you’re against abortion, feel free to reblog.
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This is sooo sad right? I know T___T However, here is a small note for you...
If you want to avoid pregancy - abortion, use contraceptives before you have fun, my gosh... such as a condom...Haven't you been taught this in elementary school? Ôó
...definitely nooot funny... trying to be serious right now òó
PEACE

Kommentare:

  1. i hope you will get raped than you would regret what you just wrote! you are just so stupid it is incredible! everyone has the rigt to do what he or she wants! how stupid you are and so easy to be manipulated just because one picture! you have no idea what it means to have a baby so SHUT THE FUCK UP! i respect everyone if they don´t want a baby or if they do want to care for a baby!would you like to be a rape-baby? when your mom is looking at you with hatred?no one has the right to judge other poeple!(and no i am not a mother or pregnant) i hope you will die in a fire

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  2. :D you are too funny anonymous :) are you getting raped at home or why are you so retarded? get a life ;D

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  3. @Anonymmous (too chicken to write ur name?)

    1.) "i hope you will get raped than you would regret what you just wrote!"
    So sorry to disappoint u that ur wish won't be fulfilled since she wrote that's something she'd read and reblogged
    2.) As u've already mentioned everyone has the right to do what he or she wants, so why shouldn't Lin have the right to think whatever she wants? Never heard of freedom of opinion/expression?
    3.)"no one has the right to judge other poeple!"
    LOL? So that's why u're playing GOD judging her? I'm impressed! O_O
    4.) I'm not quite sure if ur brain is full of shit, ur mouth is full of shit or ur fingers simply loves to produce shit since u know ur comment only contain that kind of thingie =/

    last but not least I gotta question:
    You're not a mother and not pregnant. It's a riddle right? Let me solve it, plz! =D So u're that rape-baby! BINGO? So u wished ur mom would have abort u? Was that the whole meaning to ur INCREDIBLE STUPID comment? =D

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  4. Generally, Buddhists believe that life is precious and should not be destroyed. Therefore we reject abortion because it involves the deliberate destroying of a life. We believe human life begins at conception. According to karmic roots and identity of each individual, a new being must earn the same moral respect as an already born and adult human being.
    The teaching of the Buddha focuses on the full personal responsibility for everything we do and for the consequences that follow. We are all aware of the natural principle of cause and effect. Good deeds lead to good results and vice versa, bad deeds lead to bad results.
    Therefore, I think that the decision to abort is a highly personal one in which ethical issues are involved. It requires careful and compassionate thinking and acting, and also an awareness of all effects or of whatever happens as a result of the made decision. Ethical consequences do depend on the motive and intention behind the decision and the level of mindfulness with which it was taken.
    According to the teachings of Buddha, a killing act which results in a bad karma must fulfill five following conditions: First of all, the sentient being which will be killed must be a living being, second, the person carrying out the killing act must know or be aware that it is a living being, third, he or she must have the intention to kill it, forth, there must be an effort to kill and at last the sentient being is dead as the result.
    Applying to the act of abortion, the five conditions are fulfilled if firstly, a living being, an unborn baby is conceived and being created, secondly, the woman becomes aware after a few weeks of its existence, thirdly, she decides for an abortion that provides the intention to kill, fourthly, she seeks a way to carry out the abortion and lastly the unborn baby is dead because of that action.
    In this case, the first Buddhist precept of - not to kill or harm any sentient being - is violated which resolves in the killing a human being.
    However, in some cases there are some difficulties whether to decide medically for an abortion for the safety and life of the mother or to save the child. Some people argue that if the child were born it would be so severely handicapped that it would undergo too much suffering.
    I think if the decision is taken compassionately after long and careful consideration, knowing the action may be wrong, the moral harm will be reduced by the good intentions. But anyway, in such cases the moral status of an abortion will always depend on the intentions of those carrying it out.
    To conclude my thoughts, I believe that the foetus or the unborn living being will suffer bad karma because abortion hinders its spiritual development and progress. Its life or the chance to become a human being has been taken away although it has fought to survive among many others. It will hate all those who have done harms to it and seek revenge. Unless, one carries out repentant actions and through intensive practice transfers good merits to the unborn sentient being and pray for it to be reborn again.

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